Raising a Healthy and Fit Child in the Ultra Competitive World of Youth Sports - 7 House Rules

In this report we outline 7 steps for parents toReward physical activity by giving children your full
follow in order to encourage proper physicalattention, time and praise. Get out and play with
development and emotional well-being that willthem! For young children, teach them games like
give your child the best chance for success.tag, duck-duck-goose, kick-the-can and
Everyone needs to be a champion at something.hide-and-go- seek. Let them experience how
They need to have peace of mind andmuch fun it is to be active. For older grade school
self-satisfaction as an integral part of their life.kids and young teenagers, go bike riding, kayaking
Parents should not push their children to be great.or swimming. Train for a family 5K walk-run
They need to guide and direct their children totogether. Young children have the capacity to
reach their true potential. They need to give themlearn quickly. Challenge them with experience that
the means for chasing, and hopefully reaching,stimulates them cognitively and physically. Even
their goals. The very tools you give your child tochildren within the same family will develop
use in striving to become sports or music ordifferently. The key to successful parenting is to
academic champions are the very same lifedetermine which element that child needs the
lessons he or she will need to survive-and thrive-inmost help with, (i.e.: balance, rhythm, or spatial
any endeavor. These tools include goal setting,awareness) and provide fun interactive games
daily scheduling, knowing and planning the steps tothat stimulate the senses.
reach your dreams, and overcoming tough times.4. Change is Good - Support it
In addition, your child, in striving to excel, willAs children become exposed to recreational
acquire the important character traits ofsports, have them participate in as many activities
dedication, perseverance, problem solving, andas possible (..but not at the same time!!!). When
self-confidence.the season's change, change the sport or activity.
When a child is focused on becoming a champion,Around the age of sixteen the ability to optimally
focused on striving for excellence and trying todevelop coordination begins to regress. Between
become the best he or she is capable of being,the ages of 7-14 is a critical time when the body's
they will not have an inclination or time to take aability to develop coordination and learn new skills
negative path. While striving to reach their goals,is at its prime. This validates early exposure to a
they will find themselves coming in contact withvariety of sport and activities are the solution
other young people who are also heading onwardfrom an athlete development perspective.
and upward. The key is, you want your childAdolescence is not the time to introduce elements
focusing his/her energies on self-improvement,of coordination training. As a young athletes body
not self-destruction.begins to take shape, height body weight and
Let's take a few steps back from the mindset ofbody mass strength and speed are significantly
raising a "champion athlete," and let's focus onchanging during these years. It is much more
raising "Great Kids" first. Proper physicaldifficult for the nervous system to accept new
development, otherwise known as coordinationmovement patterns rather than trying to refine
development, is a process that takes years towhat has been put on the hard drive in the earlier
evolve and is based on diversity and adaptability.years. The refinement of previously in learn skills
Young athletes should not be restricted toshould take precedence Over landing new
sport-specific skill training, or one solo sport formovement base skills.
that matter, with the expectation of becomingParent's coaches and trainers must understand
the next "champion" athlete.and accept the fact that developing a healthy and
Parents must understand that their youngsterssuccessful athlete is a process that takes years
need to first conquer the physical, emotional andencompassing varying degrees of processed
psychological challenges of living in this ultrainformation all which continue to build upon one
competitive society. These traits are critical toanother. If this process is followed coordination
establish in order to enjoy any type ofdevelopment in the post at adolescent years can
competition whether it is on the field or in thebe taken to new and exciting levels.
concert hall. Far too often, parents, coaches or5. Expect Respect
teammates see exceptional sport skill in a youngAside from teaching and exposing young children
athlete and mistakenly push full throttle ahead intoto stimulus that will foster the development of
developing a young champion of the sport. Butcoordinated movement patterns, the introduction
the true nature of a champion and the longevityand the reinforcement to the importance of
of their success hinge more so on the simplevalues, family and home is just as critical.
"house rules" that surround their personalThis will give your young athletes the reassurance
development, lifestyle, self-image and athleticthat they have all the support necessary to be
experiences.successful not just in sport but it life.
7 House Rules:In the early years of sharing taking turns and
1. Start Youngplaying fair, young people must learn to respect
Get out and play. Free play or discovery play fortheir elders, coaches, teammates/classmates
mind and body awareness, can start in the toddlerteachers and parents. Teaching the values of
years as youngsters begin to gather and processwinning and losing, proper etiquette and self
information within their environment. Developingrespect for a healthy mind body and soul will instill
coordination through various experiences in grossan aura of confidence. In a time where society is
motor movement will provide the necessaryapplying the pressure to succeed at such a young
stimulation to allow young bodies to begin theage we have seemed to forgot to instill values of
critical steps of eventually perfecting a variety ofsportsmanship and respect not only in the name
movement skills throughout their developmentalof sport but in humanity. As parents we must not
years. This process lays the groundwork andlose sight of this.
stores the necessary information to begin the6. Follow Sound Principles not Fads
development of sport specific skills in the earlyWhen athletes begin to show signs (like asking
teenage years. Whether it the closest toddleryou or suggesting how they can get better at
gym program, the YMCA or your own back yardwhat ever it is that they are doing) it may be
- let them twist, tumble, roll, run and eventime to explore performance or sport specific
stumble. They will learn valuable information aboutcoaching. Keep in mind the child must have the
their bodies that no one else can ever teachdesire to do this. Typically performance based
them.training, meaning there is a focus on strength
2. Provide Encouragement and Opportunity.speed and power, doesn't begin until the age of
Between the ages of 7 and 14 coordination13. However, there are great programs available
development is critical and is most significantin your area that will focus on the foundational
during the ages of 10 and 13. Don't wait until then!!principles of physical development, such as
In the earlier years between birth and 6 years oldgymnastics and martial arts. Some fitness
parents have the responsibility to provide a rich,companies are beginning to specialize in "Youth
nurturing and engaging environment for theirFitness." Just make certain that the individual or
children that will help stimulate the physical andcompany that will be working with your youngster
cognitive abilities their kids will count on later insticks to the principles of not only proper skill
their childhood. This involves climbing, running,development and physical conditioning, but
hopping, throwing, catching and kicking, playing anself-esteem, leadership and teamwork.
instrument or working on a puzzle. It does not7. Appreciate the Value of Rest
mean young children need to have an overflowingAthletes must understand and respect the
weekly agenda with structured activities. Quiteimportance of recovery and regeneration.
the contrary. It means you need to free up timeCumulative Physical and mental stress at a young
to stop at the park, go for a hike, swing on aage can have a profound negative impact on the
swing, bounce a basketball, race to the biggestquality of life in the home in the classroom and on
tree in the yard or try out those new in-linethe field. Quiet time for naps, homework and
skates. Encouraging young kids to explore funstudying are critical for young children. Parents
activities which promote balance, rhythm andmust take the necessary steps to provide the
spatial orientation will provide a strong foundationadequate amount of rest and quality nutrition to
for coordination development. Giving them thenurture their kids and keep their mind and bodies
time and opportunity to explore is priceless.as strong as possible.
3. Be a Role Model