| Over time any relationship can become dull and | | | | letting your guard down and just enjoy life outside |
| boring. Paying attention to your partner is | | | | of the relationship. |
| important. A few things that might help you when | | | | --Dance with each other. Could be anywhere. Club |
| you are in a relationship are listed below: | | | | or simply at your house. Move furniture away, put |
| --Pay attention to the specific issues in a | | | | your favourite tunes and dance away! This will |
| relationship -- If both of you having certain issues | | | | definitely bring the spark back into your |
| with each other, don't pretend it doesn't exist but | | | | relationship. |
| acknowledge it and do something about it. I would | | | | --Create new adventures. It is often forgotten. |
| recommend both of you sit down and actually | | | | Couples who no longer do anything exciting end |
| talk about things that bother you the most about | | | | up in a dull relationship. Do something that is fun. |
| each other. Try to come to agreement with each | | | | Something that both of you have never done |
| other. If you have to compromise, then do it but | | | | before. You can go roller blade; get bicycles out |
| don't repeat the same mistake over and over. | | | | and find a good places to go to; go to the farm |
| --Keep a personal journal. Write how your day | | | | and pick barriers together. |
| was with him. When times get tough, refer back | | | | --Play board games. It is always fun. You can do it |
| to the journal and open his eyes to the things | | | | at the comfort of your own home. Just get a |
| that hurt you that he may not have realized. | | | | game that you think both of you will enjoy and |
| --Go to church with him. Even if you are not | | | | play it! I will most likely make you laugh and boost |
| religious. It just makes your relationship stronger. | | | | up your mood. Laughter as we all know is the |
| It makes a huge difference. When you first start | | | | best medicine for anything. |
| to date him, it may not be big deal but when you | | | | --No jealousy allowed. Period. Trust is number one |
| are in a serious relationship, going to church would | | | | factor in a relationship. If a person can't trust their |
| definitely help you strengthen the bond between | | | | partner, no relationship can survive unless the |
| both of you. | | | | jealous person changes and becomes positive. |
| --Don't forget to spend time with your girlfriends | | | | --Go to the movies. If it is a rainy weekend you |
| and at the same time, encourage him to spend | | | | can always go to the cinema and enjoy your |
| time with his buddies. There is nothing wrong with | | | | favourite movie. |