Good Bye Oscar the Grouch

Remember, Oscar, he was that green furry thingpercent of what is in there. Maybe you should try
on Sesame Street that lived in a garbage can. Heto wear something you haven't worn for a while
was always grumpy, no matter what. Whator put a different accessory with it to give it a
Oscar didn't realize is that he could change. Therenew look. Give your kitchen a good scrub so that
are just as many ways to be happy as there areit sparkles and shines. Have your car detailed so it
to be unhappy. While in some cases, it is notlooks new again. Find ways to make do and be
necessarily a matter of choice, the fact thathappy with your accomplishments.
happiness feels better makes it more enticing. IfEnjoy your passions as fully as you can. Just
you are down in the dumps, how do you pickbecause you may not have that stellar job that
yourself up and be happier?has you bounding out of bed in the morning,
First of all, be grateful for what you do have.doesn't mean you have to live in a passionless
Even though it may not be very much, it is yoursdesert. There is always time, even if it is a few
and it serves a purpose in your life. We all haveminutes here and there to have a quick roller
something to be grateful for. It might be asblade around the block or put the finishing touches
simple as a nice hot bath or walking by a beautifulon that cabinet you just finished building. By living
display of flowers in the park. If you are blessedwhat you are passionate about, you enhance
with a nice house with lots of things in it, then youyour own happiness and sense of well-being. It's
have lots to be grateful for. There are lots of bigjust fine to be creative in how you weave your
and millions of small things to be grateful for. Takepassions into your day. After all, bringing meaning
notice and appreciate how your life hasand pleasure into your life is what life is all about in
progressed. Start a gratitude journal and everythe first place. Try writing that poem or knitting
evening, write three things that you are gratefulthe sleeve of that sweater in your coffee or
for today. Write something new each time,lunch break. The transit commute to and from
without duplicating any of your entries.work offers possibilities as well.
Enjoy the simple pleasures of life. Notice how blueEat good mood foods. Eating foods that are high
the sky is or how the sun shines through thein potassium, magnesium, tryptophan and B
trees. There is nothing more uplifting than beautyvitamins help to smooth out your mood and
to make your heart sing. Relish the taste of yourknock off the jagged edges. Besides eating a
favorite foods, really notice them. Make a point ofnutritionally dense diet where every calorie counts
wearing your favorite color and notice how itfor awesome nutrition, you can add mood
accents your eyes or your skin tone. Make it anboosting foods that tip you into the happiness
important event every day to bring pleasure toscale.
yourself and really savor how delightful it feels toWhen you have things that you look forward to
be aware of all the wonderful things that surrounddoing because they make you feel good, you will
you.feel happier and more content within yourself. If
Be happy with what you have, not what youyou don't seem to be able to find your passion,
don't. Sooner or later you will realize that retailtry listening to music or look up short videos on
therapy will not make you any happier than youYouTube. Things that uplift you and make you
are right now. Buying stuff now will not make upfeel good are important to find. Step outside your
for the credit card bill doldrums at the end of thecomfort zone and go walk dogs at your local
month. We live in a consumer driven societyanimal shelter or join a local square dance club.
where everything we purchase is meant to beHey, if you don't like it, go try something else.
used for a short time before it breaks down andThere are millions of things you can do that will
is thrown away. We are conditioned to buy, buy,turn your green fur yellow, get you out of the
buy, not fix or reuse. If you look in your closet,garbage can and even put a smile on your face.
you will find that you only wear about 20 to 30It's worth a try, don't you think?