| So you are finally going out with the object of | | | | to her as well as the things they do together. |
| your dreams for the first time this weekend. | | | | It may be difficult staying attentive when talking |
| Naturally, you're excited and have everything all | | | | about people you don't know, but hang in there. If |
| planned out: a little mini-golf, dinner at a fancy | | | | she's the type of woman you'd like to know |
| restaurant, a few drinks. | | | | better, then her friends are a great source to |
| But, you're a little concerned too because you're | | | | learn about her past (...and discover the skeletons |
| not sure if she will find you interesting. What if | | | | in her closet). |
| you have nothing to talk about? The thought | | | | 4. Weekends |
| races through your head and it's a bit intimidating. | | | | What does she like to do during weekends and |
| Here are some surefire conversation starters for | | | | how does she usually spend them? |
| your first date. Not only will they keep the | | | | If the date is going great, talking about weekends |
| conversation flowing and lively, they will also help | | | | can send her the right signal. It can make her |
| you get to know your date better. Better still, | | | | think, "Does he want to spend time with me |
| you, the clever conversationalist that you are, will | | | | during weekends?" |
| come off appearing as a thoughtful and caring | | | | The way she talks about this topic can give you |
| fellow. | | | | clues about your future prospects with her. |
| 1. Free time pursuits | | | | 5. The future |
| What does she do during her free time? Does | | | | This can be a tricky topic, but if everything is |
| she dance, collect stamps or roller blade? What | | | | going great on your date, then why not talk |
| sports does she enjoy? What type of music does | | | | about all the things you can do together in the |
| she love? These topics will serve your will in two | | | | future? |
| ways: First, they allow you to gauge what things | | | | If you misread the situation, this topic can scare |
| you have in common and what kind of bond you | | | | her off. But if she's eager to spend more time |
| may have. Second, they provide a lot of insight | | | | with you, she will be curious about what you have |
| for future conversations. | | | | in store for her in the future. |
| 2. Work | | | | Oh, and just so you're well-rounded on this topic, |
| This is a great topic, especially for those who | | | | here's one subject that you shouldn't talk about: |
| have been out of college for some time. Almost | | | | her past. Never ask about past lovers on your |
| everyone likes to talk about their work, no | | | | first date (or during any date, for that matter, |
| matter how routine it may be. For some women, | | | | unless she initiates it, and even then it may not be |
| work is the central thing in their lives and talking | | | | a good idea). |
| about it can make you feel closer to her. | | | | Old feelings of pain and hurt may resurface. Or |
| 3. Friends | | | | worse, she may not be totally over her last beau. |
| Although you may not know her friends, she will | | | | In any case, it's a subject matter that is fraught |
| love to talk about them anyway. She will talk | | | | with danger, so proceed with caution. |
| about how she met them and what they mean | | | | |